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&lt;p&gt;There were enough really cool things about the movie that I am really upset that Baz Luhrman had to do his Baz thing.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;!-- more --&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Basically: Loved the music, loved the visuals (omg so much), liked the actors, liked how close they tried to stay to the book. Disliked their choices to change the things they changed. GOT A FUCKING HEADACHE from the spastic editing and mind-bendingly weird pacing. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I really &amp;#8230; really did not like the added Sanitorium bookends. It kept shoving its way into every scene (you do not need to keep cutting back to that shit dammit it doesn&amp;#8217;t add anything to the damn story), ate up screentime, and kind of killed Nick&amp;#8217;s character for me?? The movie takes his character SO DAMN SERIOUSLY, and Nick &amp;#8230; can&amp;#8217;t really handle that. He has a subtle little arc and that&amp;#8217;s really it. Anything more makes him seem just unrealistic.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Oh and it&amp;#8217;s exactly the same bullshit they had in Moulin Rouge. :| It is like the EXACT SAME TROPE. The main difference is that Ewan Mcgregor&amp;#8217;s face can handle constant extreme close-ups better than Toby McGuire can. And I actually rather liked Toby?? I feel like people are going to hate him, but I don&amp;#8217;t think anything wrong with Nick is his fault. It&amp;#8217;s the writing and the obnoxious editing choices.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I also feel like we really lose Gatsby&amp;#8217;s arc a lot?? Like the first party scene is SO spastic that we barely see him at all, and that&amp;#8217;s his fucking introduction scene dammit. The only reason we get a sense of his character is because they shove Nick&amp;#8217;s narration on top of everything to let us know what we SHOULD be seeing onscreen. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;And the fucking car scene where Nick and Gatsby go into town together FUCK ARGH FUCK. It&amp;#8217;s not even the most vital scene in the story, but it is necessary for the arc of Nick and Gatsby&amp;#8217;s relationship. It establishes how Gatsby presents himself to Nick and the specific facts he uses (going to Oxford, being a war hero) are important for later in the story. But we can barely hear what he&amp;#8217;s saying because Baz inserted this insane CGI car sequence on top of it. And again, we only know what Gatsby is saying because Nick narrates on top of him WHILE HE IS STILL TALKING. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Overall the narration annoyed the crap outta me. XD I don&amp;#8217;t think it was 100% out of place? I liked it in the opening scene! And I really like Fitzgerald&amp;#8217;s prose so I didn&amp;#8217;t mind having it there in theory, but Baz kept shoving one line or two in at random at the moment when it was MOST IMPORTANT that we FEEL a moment. URGH.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I think Baz is, like, allergic to dialogue scenes, which is a problem because the Great Gatsby is MOSTLY character-based dialogue scenes. He has to be constantly cutting to crazy shots or going to extreme close-up or forcing weird action car sequences into things, and it&amp;#8217;s annoying as heck. D:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;He seems to have this rule of &amp;#8220;why do a scene in two shots when you can do it in FIFTY?&amp;#8221; which drives me absolutely nuts ARGH.  How can he expect any actor to act when they&amp;#8217;re only given one-second-long shots to act in?? This especially peeves me because I feel like DiCaprio was a PERFECT choice for Gatsby but I feel like I BARELY got a sense of his character because they were too busy cutting to other shit. &amp;gt;&amp;lt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;#8220;Uh oh, we haven&amp;#8217;t checked in to see Nick&amp;#8217;s reaction in the last two seconds! What could he possibly be feeling about Gatsby when the camera is SLIGHTLY CLOSER than it was three seconds ago?? Surely we MUST CUT HERE to convey the IMMENSELY IMPORTANT information.&amp;#8221; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;They even managed to kill the &amp;#8220;green light&amp;#8221; scene. HOW DO YOU DO THAT. You can sell that entire scene in like two fucking cuts. But I swear they worked in at least five reaction shots (of the same character) AND OF COURSE, NICK NARRATED OVER THE WHOLE THING, even though he was basically saying &amp;#8220;I don&amp;#8217;t know what&amp;#8217;s going on when Gatsby reaches out to the green light that you can clearly see on screen.&amp;#8221;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;FEELS. I HAVE THEM.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50961412606</link><guid>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50961412606</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 20:01:20 -0700</pubDate><category>the great gatsby</category><category>story</category></item><item><title>hoursago:

this show has puppies????!!!?
</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/d93d540fb2fe981dd53f7c8319e6d045/tumblr_mmq1ohGDXr1qdyc0to1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://hoursago.tumblr.com/post/50324081848/this-show-has-puppies" target="_blank"&gt;hoursago&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;this show has puppies????!!!?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50940005612</link><guid>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50940005612</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 15:33:49 -0700</pubDate><category>hannibal</category><category>new favorite show</category></item><item><title>"3 percent of the decision-making in media comes from women. That means 97 percent of how women are..."</title><description>“3 percent of the decision-making in media comes from women. That means 97 percent of how women are portrayed is decided on by men.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;p&gt;Independent Lens, PBS&lt;br/&gt;“Wonder Women! The Untold Story of American Superheroines” (via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://ihopeyoucontinue4ever.tumblr.com/" target="_blank"&gt;ihopeyoucontinue4ever&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;It also means that 97 percent of how men are portrayed in media are decided on by men. Something to remind MRAs and their ilk of when they complain about the stereotype of men as inept slobs, bad fathers, etc in media and advertising.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Men have the power. So when we men are shat on by the powers that be you don’t get to try and blame women for that.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;(via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://karethdreams.tumblr.com/" target="_blank"&gt;karethdreams&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;How much of that is white men tho?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;(via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://howtobeterrell.tumblr.com/" target="_blank"&gt;howtobeterrell&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Also of that 3% it’s mostly white women&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;(via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://strugglingtobeheard.tumblr.com/" target="_blank"&gt;strugglingtobeheard&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50883997644</link><guid>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50883997644</guid><pubDate>Sun, 19 May 2013 21:21:44 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>onceuponadrawing:

Anthony Perkins - Psycho (1960)</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/b6790e2640405c72bf3303c0777dc255/tumblr_mn2tisOPe81qaixtto1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://onceuponadrawing.tumblr.com/post/50877873130/anthony-perkins-psycho-1960" class="tumblr_blog" target="_blank"&gt;onceuponadrawing&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;Anthony Perkins - &lt;em&gt;Psycho (1960)&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50883555114</link><guid>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50883555114</guid><pubDate>Sun, 19 May 2013 21:15:08 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>embracingmychaos:

abandonedography:

9 of the Most Fascinating...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/64307b4da925612203b7db5cadbcea91/tumblr_mmnddlKxgQ1r9943oo9_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/5a90716034e07a77f2a5beb0798d0605/tumblr_mmnddlKxgQ1r9943oo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/50fdc37fc3bef48116bef53d31cb3c52/tumblr_mmnddlKxgQ1r9943oo5_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/ca3ce11d1b3128c2af0fead105a3249e/tumblr_mmnddlKxgQ1r9943oo4_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/43cc9b931c25fe682076ab986b5ec985/tumblr_mmnddlKxgQ1r9943oo2_r1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/ea6f0a9afa179df236d9c2df8f58a47b/tumblr_mmnddlKxgQ1r9943oo8_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/bd31c583cefabb35fb5f26865e03cc44/tumblr_mmnddlKxgQ1r9943oo7_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/3566b568cd31703b5186ff684437d1ad/tumblr_mmnddlKxgQ1r9943oo6_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/e5d89879616df90718c9d08a4cddfd9c/tumblr_mmnddlKxgQ1r9943oo10_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://embracingmychaos.tumblr.com/post/50685396713/abandonedography-9-of-the-most-fascinating" target="_blank"&gt;embracingmychaos&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://abandonedography.com/post/50189884996/9-of-the-most-fascinating-abandoned-mansions-from" target="_blank"&gt;abandonedography&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://io9.com/9-of-the-most-fascinating-abandoned-mansions-from-aroun-471010619" target="_blank"&gt;9 of the Most Fascinating Abandoned Mansions from Around the World&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Is it bad that I just want to explore these at night&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50739936577</link><guid>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50739936577</guid><pubDate>Sat, 18 May 2013 10:02:31 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>"… the socialization of boys regarding masculinity is often at the expense of women. I came to..."</title><description>“… the socialization of boys regarding masculinity is often at the expense of women. I came to realize that we don’t raise boys to be men, we raise them not to be women (or gay men). We teach boys that girls and women are “less than” and that leads to violence by some and silence by many. It’s important for men to stand up to not only stop men’s violence against women but, to teach young men a broader definition of masculinity that includes being empathetic, loving and non-violent.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;Don McPherson, former NFL quarterback, feminist and educator&lt;/span&gt; (via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://albinwonderland.tumblr.com/" target="_blank"&gt;albinwonderland&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50700700008</link><guid>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50700700008</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2013 20:13:56 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>mistresscheese:

hollywoodisgay:

lucywithaview:

rosalarian:

li...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/bd4cc60b489400dbfedfcda0b27f3d33/tumblr_mmmijal3Pz1qiekgdo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; Common Myths About Bisexuality 1&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/01715decbab4f65de567b4bbe291e2db/tumblr_mmmijal3Pz1qiekgdo2_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; Common Myths About Bisexuality 2&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/5acdecff5d6015f3e088862a74aa0648/tumblr_mmmijal3Pz1qiekgdo3_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; Common Myths About Bisexuality 3&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/6cd3e17a7ba0e18c0fc8856952729113/tumblr_mmmijal3Pz1qiekgdo4_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; Common Myths About Bisexuality 4&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://mistresscheese.tumblr.com/post/50664343020/hollywoodisgay-lucywithaview-rosalarian" target="_blank"&gt;mistresscheese&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://hollywoodisgay.tumblr.com/post/50501604178/lucywithaview-rosalarian-littlefroggies" target="_blank"&gt;hollywoodisgay&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://lucywithaview.tumblr.com/post/50497956504/rosalarian-littlefroggies" target="_blank"&gt;lucywithaview&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://rosalarian.tumblr.com/post/50348765033/littlefroggies-bisexual-community-common" target="_blank"&gt;rosalarian&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://littlefroggies.tumblr.com/post/50347210652/bisexual-community-common-myths-about" target="_blank"&gt;littlefroggies&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://bisexual-community.tumblr.com/post/50171293774/common-myths-about-bisexuality-from-the-lovely" target="_blank"&gt;bisexual-community&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://jesusloveslesbianstoo.com/common-myths-about-bisexuality" target="_blank"&gt;Common Myths About Bisexuality&lt;/a&gt; from the lovely Webcomic &lt;em&gt;“&lt;a href="http://jesusloveslesbianstoo.com" target="_blank"&gt;Jesus Loves Lesbians, Too&lt;/a&gt;”&lt;/em&gt; by &lt;a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/maria-burnham/" target="_blank"&gt;bi blogger&lt;/a&gt; &amp; author &lt;a href="http://jesusloveslesbianstoo.com/maria-burnham" target="_blank"&gt;Maria Burnham&lt;/a&gt; (writer/memoirist) and &lt;a href="http://jesusloveslesbianstoo.com/maggie" target="_blank"&gt;Maggie Siegel-Berele&lt;/a&gt; (comic artist). &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;I usually don’t reblog stuff like this because this is my art blog but this hit close to home and reminded me of so many conversations that made me feel like garbage.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;It always makes me see red when I see lesbians (and gay men) treating bisexuals this way. I don’t think I can even type too much more without quickly reaching a point where I just smash my head into the keyboard.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;I just want to add that there is nothing wrong with wanting sex and not love, either&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;That, of course, is entirely true.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Everyone has the potential to be prejudiced. It’s just really, really disheartening when people who you turn to for comfort and support are the most prejudiced against you (aka homosexual people thinking these things about bisexuals. Not that straight people don’t, but…you’d just think that people who have experienced similar prejudice themselves can DAMN WELL THINK.)&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Wow guys sorry about the torrent of queer-related posts lately (all TWO of them, scandalous!) but this is relevant to my interests »  &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50666508791</link><guid>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50666508791</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2013 11:52:01 -0700</pubDate><category>lgbt</category><category>I'm not good at talking about gay related things</category><category>so I just let the internet do it for me</category><category>lol</category></item><item><title>baysalt:

erikamoen:

(Cross-posted from my blog)
One of the...</title><description>&lt;iframe src="http://player.vimeo.com/video/61243479" width="400" height="326" frameborder="0"&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://baysalt.tumblr.com/post/44798515342/erikamoen-cross-posted-from-my-blog-one-of" class="tumblr_blog" target="_blank"&gt;baysalt&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://erikamoen.tumblr.com/post/44786261661/cross-posted-from-my-blog-one-of-the-highlights" target="_blank"&gt;erikamoen&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;(&lt;a href="http://www.erikamoen.com/video/non-binary-sexuality-video/" target="_blank"&gt;Cross-posted from my blog&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;One of the highlights of exhibiting at the &lt;a href="http://emeraldcitycomicon.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Emerald City Comic-Con&lt;/a&gt; for me was getting to be a speaker on the &lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="https://vimeo.com/61243479" target="_blank"&gt;Beyond Categories: Non-Binary Sexuality&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; panel!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.bopcomics.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Randall Kirby&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.boldriley.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Leia Weathington&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://northwestpress.com" target="_blank"&gt;Charles “Zan” Christensen&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.ellenforney.com" target="_blank"&gt;Ellen Forney&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://mockman.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Jason Thompson&lt;/a&gt; and myself gathered together to discuss having bi/pan/queer sexualities in a monosexual world where both the straights and the gays don’t accept you (or straight up view you as The Enemy) and our experiences with biphobia– all with a healthy dose of dick jokes and wise-crackin’.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The anthology on non-binary sexuality that Zan is putting together through his publishing house, &lt;a href="http://northwestpress.com" target="_blank"&gt;Northwest Press&lt;/a&gt;, is titled &lt;em&gt;“Anything That Loves”&lt;/em&gt;, look for it in July.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;(The video may take a bit longer than normal to load because I accidentally made the file gigantic? Try unselecting “HD” in the bottom right hand corner and also I’m a cartoonist not a video editor sorry I have no idea how to do anything! ;)&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Ahh!! BLESS THIS POST&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;So a bit of backstory: Yesterday I decided to &lt;strike&gt;torture myself&lt;/strike&gt; listen to an episode of the Savage Love podcast dedicated to bisexuality (they had a “guest expert”! I had high hopes!), and you may or may not have witnessed my increasingly bewildered (see: enraged) live-tweeting of the whole thing. I was really riled up about some of the (imo) ignorant, misleading, and genuinely hurtful things said in the episode.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;GOOD NEWS THOUGH, swooping in to save my day was this wonderful panel from Emerald City Comic Con discussing non-binary sexuality as it relates to comics, media, and life in general. The panelists, moderator, and audience questions were all SO thoughtful and intelligent and EXACTLY what I feel people need to hear about this topic. So do please give it a listen if you’re able!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I don’t really get on my soapbox often, but here I go(!!) in order to applaud everyone involved in this amazing panel. Thank you for putting it together and thank you for sharing your stories and insight to the rest of us!&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50665902251</link><guid>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50665902251</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2013 11:41:18 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>i-dance-inside-my-mind:

IKR
</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/8dda9fd967f2faf6e74fd3773b17dd8b/tumblr_mmxo6idLrV1s363iso1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/09842e771c1cccb332e0006ef64cc7a7/tumblr_mmxo6idLrV1s363iso2_r1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/1c2c8a4e28daf62114e28cf958fa43da/tumblr_mmxo6idLrV1s363iso3_r1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://i-dance-inside-my-mind.tumblr.com/post/50640883962/ikr" target="_blank"&gt;i-dance-inside-my-mind&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;IKR&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50662119322</link><guid>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50662119322</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2013 10:30:49 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>leseanthomas:

ca-tsuka:

Artworks of Kairos (Studio La...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/e6ac846f76eef600b7d986be2d904b91/tumblr_mmugzdxenL1rb1rgoo3_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/8b5569231bc981cef3250eb69c851716/tumblr_mmugzdxenL1rb1rgoo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/baa9a61852f6f6ebb38ce0803c1b1dd2/tumblr_mmugzdxenL1rb1rgoo4_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/e84aa8847140f90a93ad407b15321e4a/tumblr_mmugzdxenL1rb1rgoo5_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/d6f8ee4af6090b58b2335b3c071c183d/tumblr_mmugzdxenL1rb1rgoo2_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/3d5f8907b5328a44aa495aa2f72b0a3b/tumblr_mmugzdxenL1rb1rgoo6_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/ab6ac502026ca450111071e0cd99be2b/tumblr_mmugzdxenL1rb1rgoo10_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/be554cd2129de8deba3833c4545de72e/tumblr_mmugzdxenL1rb1rgoo8_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/6432471664e1b0b58c38fdbddca42848/tumblr_mmugzdxenL1rb1rgoo9_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/c730143245895fd826b6b3b32db1fccc/tumblr_mmugzdxenL1rb1rgoo7_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://leseanthomas.tumblr.com/post/50506008834/ca-tsuka-artworks-of-kairos-studio-la" target="_blank"&gt;leseanthomas&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://ca-tsuka.tumblr.com/post/50497824060/artworks-of-kairos-studio-la-cachette" target="_blank"&gt;ca-tsuka&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Artworks of &lt;a href="https://vimeo.com/64386008" target="_blank"&gt;Kairos&lt;/a&gt; (&lt;a href="http://www.studiolacachette.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Studio La Cachette&lt;/a&gt;).&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This is a reason why i love 2D animation so much. Awesome!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50534378555</link><guid>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50534378555</guid><pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2013 16:40:33 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>bonesmakenoise:

arythusa:

vulcanoes:

pantone219:

vulcanoes:

...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/c7691a2d1148cac657139e8adbc25cd9/tumblr_mmslfia2Wp1qiu7yxo1_400.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://bonesmakenoise.tumblr.com/post/50498441945/arythusa-vulcanoes-pantone219" class="tumblr_blog" target="_blank"&gt;bonesmakenoise&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50476830874/vulcanoes-pantone219-vulcanoes" target="_blank"&gt;arythusa&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://vulcanoes.tumblr.com/post/50451305390" target="_blank"&gt;vulcanoes&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://pantone219.tumblr.com/post/50447005582/vulcanoes-pantone219" target="_blank"&gt;pantone219&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://vulcanoes.tumblr.com/post/50445657763" target="_blank"&gt;vulcanoes&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://pantone219.tumblr.com/post/50443449754/disney-rapunzel-merida-vanellope" target="_blank"&gt;pantone219&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://disney-rapunzel-merida-vanellope.tumblr.com/post/50440585677/briannathestrange-guys-our-rage-is-on-the" target="_blank"&gt;disney-rapunzel-merida-vanellope&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://briannathestrange.tumblr.com/post/50420794489" target="_blank"&gt;briannathestrange&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Guys, our rage is on the msn.com homepage poll.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;DISNEY. DISNEY, ARE YOU LISTENING???&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;she looks fine both ways to me :)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I don’t get why everyone’s flipping out. They look the same.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Really? Calling us dumbasses, Brandy? No they do not look the fucking same. Those car eyes? The fucking proportions of body to head that make her skinnier? Are you fucking serious? Disney you are pissing me the fuck off.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;…. Are you serious? The only difference are the eyes and that’s about it.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Seriously? Her legs are longer by making her waist higher. Her waist is also skinner, making her hips just out more in an hourglass shape. Merida had a realistic body shape for a teen. Plus the glitz on a dress she obviously hated. Disney is saying she wasn’t “pretty” enough. Whoever has been on the artistic team of late needs to be fired. Rapunzel looks weird and Belle doesn’t even look like herself anymore, and the classic princess all look Barbie-fied. Being pretty is not a bad thing at all, but they are making it a priority in marketing, giving girls yet again more unrealistic role models.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;When I was a kid, the only ‘princess’ I liked was Belle because she liked reading and was brave, but I never wanted her merch because she didn’t look the same as the movie. She was always in that godawful yellow dress that she wore ONCE. When Mulan came out, I was ecstatic, because I really connected with her. She was tough and out spoken and brave and resourceful. But all the merch shows of her is in the dress in the beginning, which she wore ONCE.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Disney told me that being “princess-like” was most important, and being a boy for much of my childhood, I thought that was bullshit. That was only one cool aspect of the girls. Not the most important. It can’t be what we teach our girls to focus on—the glitz and glamour over bravery and selflessness and and shit. Not every girl fits that princess type. So they are left feeling inadequate. Believe me, that psychological shit is real, because it messed me the fuck up. It took me a long time to learn how to look girly, because I associated it with an ideal I could never have or achieve and failing to achieve that ideal brought a lot of grief to my life.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;tl;dr: There definitely are differences and I am surprised that as an artist, you don’t see them. But the point is the others do—a LOT of them CHILDREN and girls, who we need to protect from this kind of bullshit.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I agree with everything except blaming/firing the art team! I severely doubt any of these changes were their decision at all. :\ They were probably doing the best they could in … incredibly restrictive circumstances.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;But considering that we can’t blame the artists, I am wondering who (or what) exactly we could reasonably pin the blame on, or how an unpleasant and widespread trend like this could be addressed. The only Disney merchandise I ever bought was plushes of the animal sidekicks (+every lion character). I could never really relate to the female characters save for Mulan, and even at a young age I noticed how jenky the merchandise looked compared to the films. XD&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Historically, you can probably blame Eisner, as he is popularly credited for the creation of the “Princess Franchise,” as well as the Disney Store. However, there is probably a mid-level marketing guy who probably said “shit, merida doesn’t match the others, gussy her up, and make her proportions more normal” and we got this.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Fucking Eisner!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I’ve been reading that DisneyWar book lately and holy shit that fucking dude. I’ve almost thrown my kindle across the room several times yelling, “What do you need all that money for?? What did you do with all the other money you had??”&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50531561182</link><guid>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50531561182</guid><pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2013 16:07:04 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>"You mean the generation that paid three times as much for college to enter a job market with triple..."</title><description>“You mean the generation that paid three times as much for college to enter a job market with triple the unemployment isn’t interested in purchasing the assets of the generation who just blew an enormous housing bubble and kept it from popping through quantitative easing and out-and-out federal support? Curious.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;p&gt;When comments are better than the article, &lt;em&gt;Atlantic&lt;/em&gt; edition (“&lt;a href="http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2012/09/the-cheapest-generation/309060/" title="atlantic" target="_blank"&gt;The Cheapest Generation: Why Millennials arent’ buying cars or houses, and what that means for the economy&lt;/a&gt;”)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Every time someone says we’re a lazy and entitled generation I’m going to show them this&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;They should be happy most of us haven’t moved to the moon yet&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;That actually sounds like a good idea at this point &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;(via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://setfabulazerstomaximumcaptain.tumblr.com/" target="_blank"&gt;setfabulazerstomaximumcaptain&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;“Just get another job”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Yeah okay I’ll go get one from the job tree, along with everyone else who graduated with my qualifications while more are coming all the time&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;(via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://nannairb.tumblr.com/" target="_blank"&gt;nannairb&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50526810718</link><guid>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50526810718</guid><pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2013 15:33:40 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>amischiefofmice:

JAAAAMES BAAAAXTER
</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/a4cda7e8b3e46967e31e28d59c2a5a7c/tumblr_mmgh0d9Ott1rjhs39o2_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/ee5c30b8f97da3550013054d3e2da345/tumblr_mmgh0d9Ott1rjhs39o1_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://amischiefofmice.tumblr.com/post/50511568997/jaaaames-baaaaxter" target="_blank"&gt;amischiefofmice&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;JAAAAMES BAAAAXTER&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50514289913</link><guid>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50514289913</guid><pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2013 12:50:03 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>Diversity in YA: 5 Things Faith Erin Hicks Learned While Drawing NOTHING CAN POSSIBLY GO WRONG</title><description>&lt;a href="http://diversityinya.tumblr.com/post/50498574954/5-things-faith-erin-hicks-learned-while-drawing-nothing"&gt;Diversity in YA: 5 Things Faith Erin Hicks Learned While Drawing NOTHING CAN POSSIBLY GO WRONG&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://diversityinya.tumblr.com/post/50498574954/5-things-faith-erin-hicks-learned-while-drawing-nothing" class="tumblr_blog" target="_blank"&gt;diversityinya&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;By &lt;a href="http://www.faitherinhicks.com/index.php" target="_blank"&gt;Faith Erin Hicks&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/83649fc1e933810b9a6886e07e1f6417/tumblr_inline_mmlop9WN2i1qz4rgp.jpg"/&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;1) Robot fight scenes are the hardest things to draw ever.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Over the past five years of working fulltime in comics, I’ve drawn a wide variety of things. Summer camps, creepy alien birds, graveyards, ships, ghosts, schools, ponies …. but nothing is as difficult to draw…&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Ohhh, I know those feels about diversity.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50502913825</link><guid>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50502913825</guid><pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2013 09:31:44 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>My dad is the best Cooking Papa :)</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ltv978ybCM1qboe9so1_r3_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ltv978ybCM1qboe9so2_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;My dad is the best Cooking Papa :)&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50483834358</link><guid>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50483834358</guid><pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2013 00:32:48 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>vulcanoes:

pantone219:

vulcanoes:

pantone219:

disney-rapunzel...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/c7691a2d1148cac657139e8adbc25cd9/tumblr_mmslfia2Wp1qiu7yxo1_400.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://vulcanoes.tumblr.com/post/50451305390" target="_blank"&gt;vulcanoes&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://pantone219.tumblr.com/post/50447005582/vulcanoes-pantone219" target="_blank"&gt;pantone219&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://vulcanoes.tumblr.com/post/50445657763" target="_blank"&gt;vulcanoes&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://pantone219.tumblr.com/post/50443449754/disney-rapunzel-merida-vanellope" target="_blank"&gt;pantone219&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://disney-rapunzel-merida-vanellope.tumblr.com/post/50440585677/briannathestrange-guys-our-rage-is-on-the" target="_blank"&gt;disney-rapunzel-merida-vanellope&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://briannathestrange.tumblr.com/post/50420794489" target="_blank"&gt;briannathestrange&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Guys, our rage is on the msn.com homepage poll.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;DISNEY. DISNEY, ARE YOU LISTENING???&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;she looks fine both ways to me :)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I don’t get why everyone’s flipping out. They look the same.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Really? Calling us dumbasses, Brandy? No they do not look the fucking same. Those car eyes? The fucking proportions of body to head that make her skinnier? Are you fucking serious? Disney you are pissing me the fuck off.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;…. Are you serious? The only difference are the eyes and that’s about it.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Seriously? Her legs are longer by making her waist higher. Her waist is also skinner, making her hips just out more in an hourglass shape. Merida had a realistic body shape for a teen. Plus the glitz on a dress she obviously hated. Disney is saying she wasn’t “pretty” enough. Whoever has been on the artistic team of late needs to be fired. Rapunzel looks weird and Belle doesn’t even look like herself anymore, and the classic princess all look Barbie-fied. Being pretty is not a bad thing at all, but they are making it a priority in marketing, giving girls yet again more unrealistic role models.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;When I was a kid, the only ‘princess’ I liked was Belle because she liked reading and was brave, but I never wanted her merch because she didn’t look the same as the movie. She was always in that godawful yellow dress that she wore ONCE. When Mulan came out, I was ecstatic, because I really connected with her. She was tough and out spoken and brave and resourceful. But all the merch shows of her is in the dress in the beginning, which she wore ONCE.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Disney told me that being “princess-like” was most important, and being a boy for much of my childhood, I thought that was bullshit. That was only one cool aspect of the girls. Not the most important. It can’t be what we teach our girls to focus on—the glitz and glamour over bravery and selflessness and and shit. Not every girl fits that princess type. So they are left feeling inadequate. Believe me, that psychological shit is real, because it messed me the fuck up. It took me a long time to learn how to look girly, because I associated it with an ideal I could never have or achieve and failing to achieve that ideal brought a lot of grief to my life.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;tl;dr: There definitely are differences and I am surprised that as an artist, you don’t see them. But the point is the others do—a LOT of them CHILDREN and girls, who we need to protect from this kind of bullshit.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I agree with everything except blaming/firing the art team! I severely doubt any of these changes were their decision at all. :\ They were probably doing the best they could in … incredibly restrictive circumstances. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;But considering that we can’t blame the artists, I am wondering who (or what) exactly we could reasonably pin the blame on, or how an unpleasant and widespread trend like this could be addressed. The only Disney merchandise I ever bought was plushes of the animal sidekicks (+every lion character). I could never really relate to the female characters save for Mulan, and even at a young age I noticed how jenky the merchandise looked compared to the films. XD&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50476830874</link><guid>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50476830874</guid><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2013 21:38:26 -0700</pubDate><category>disney princess</category></item><item><title>gg-art:

Envy, redo of an old piece!</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/a24a6cb221fd9f8cc43e12658d251a76/tumblr_mmt90kO5Li1qay0t7o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://gg-art.tumblr.com/post/50451623288/envy-redo-of-an-old-piece" class="tumblr_blog" target="_blank"&gt;gg-art&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;Envy, redo of an old piece!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50475700218</link><guid>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50475700218</guid><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2013 21:18:43 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>thehimesama:

lulunobody:

norsegays:

I just want to give my...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/3613a8d668b248d8107bb5a446bdb4bb/tumblr_ml3t3iH9YS1s1btozo1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/051c30955221fd53b1655c2872f2d300/tumblr_ml3t3iH9YS1s1btozo2_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/5508a439964bb7e14d63a9372b9b3198/tumblr_ml3t3iH9YS1s1btozo3_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/7cc39f1a8a70656586dd0305cfca6e78/tumblr_ml3t3iH9YS1s1btozo4_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://thehimesama.tumblr.com/post/50465337854/lulunobody-norsegays-i-just-want-to-give-my" target="_blank"&gt;thehimesama&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://lulunobody.tumblr.com/post/50465189458/norsegays-i-just-want-to-give-my-two-cents-on" target="_blank"&gt;lulunobody&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://norsegays.tumblr.com/post/50430358818/astrolope-people-being-angry-about-dem-gays" target="_blank"&gt;norsegays&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;I just want to give my two cents on this and tell you a story.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;A couple weeks ago, I was hired at Target. I have a job at Target. Not a big deal right?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;It is a big deal because i’m a transman&lt;/strong&gt;. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;It doesn’t take a genius to conclude that it’s hard for me, my brothers, and sisters to get a job. There are legal restraints regarding the job and if you don’t pass, it’s hard to be taken seriously at a job interview.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Right on the application, it asks what your preferred name is. It also asks if there is anything that target should know. I put the fact that I am a transman, expecting not to get a call because usually when you put that down, people will throw out the application. I got TWO interviews.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;At the interview, they asked me about it. I told them I am on hormones and they told me that they didn’t care. Not in the sense that they don’t emotionally care, but that it didn’t matter. I was male and that’s all that mattered. They also told me that &lt;strong&gt;they give sex same couples benefits in states that do not recognize them as a married couple.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;At my job orientation, I was not misgendered once. Even my supervisors who weren’t sure of my gender avoided pronoun use, which I found only happens when you’ve had pronoun training. They gave me a name tag with my preferred name and didn’t ask questions. I felt safe and respected, which is huge for a trans* person.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;TLDR: Target is amazing not just for the LGB, but also the T. Shop there for the rest of your life.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;It’s good to know this happens at other target locations. Mine was never this fantastic.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;ahhh ;u;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50468171160</link><guid>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50468171160</guid><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2013 19:30:54 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>michaeldantedimartino:

My recommendation of 5 books that can...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/ec395b32bf405bca2120e99beb1176ac/tumblr_mmrr1wyrnN1rz68g3o1_400.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://michaeldantedimartino.tumblr.com/post/50396146583/my-recommendation-of-5-books-that-can-help-you" class="tumblr_blog" target="_blank"&gt;michaeldantedimartino&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;My recommendation of 5 books that can help you create a compelling story&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://mikedimartinostory.com/2013/05/13/5-books-to-help-you-create-a-compelling-story/" target="_blank"&gt;View Post&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50396309131</link><guid>http://arythusa.tumblr.com/post/50396309131</guid><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2013 20:32:14 -0700</pubDate></item></channel></rss>
